For women who are looking into having tubal ligation reversal or those that have already scheduled their surgery date many find that some people just will not have anything good to say about it.
For those that have made the decision this is a very happy and exciting time in their lives. But, as with anything in life there will always be people that have something negative to say about.
Here are some of the responses that women on the Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center message board have received:
Why would you want to do this now? All of your children are grown.
You are too old to have this done and start all over again.
Don’t you want to enjoy your life?
You could have a baby with something wrong with it. Do you want to risk that at your age?
You don’t need any more kids.
How are you going to pay for them?
And this is not the end of the list! The message board is excellent for those who have made this decision and are facing negative people. They have the utmost support and respect for each other and are there through the thick and the thin.
As one of the tubal ligation reversal women states, “It is our lives and we are the ones taking care of the children. They are taken care of and loved”. If you are one of these women that have been faced with negative people then there is a support group of wonderful women available.
Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center is the only center in the world that is dedicated solely to tubal ligation reversal. Dr. Gary Berger and Dr. Charles Monteith are respected worldwide for being the best in the field. There is an extensive website with a blog, message board and very interesting videos.