Many times women who opt to have tubal reversal surgery due to a new relationship already have children and a big factor is telling them about your decision. For many families tubal reversal surgery becomes a family affair.
Many times the ages of the children of women who have chosen will be in the teens. Although they may be happy with your decision the issue of having to pay for surgery can become a center point in the household. Any parent of teens does not to be told how expensive the things they want can become and when you are trying to save the money it isn’t always easy to tell them you cannot afford something they want.
The women on the Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center website who discuss issues on the tubal reversal message board have had a recent conversation on this. Although many of the teens are happy about having a sibling the cutting back of the expenses does not always get accepted as easily. Many couples have decided to use their income tax returns to help pay for the surgery and this is when the teens know there is a lump of money coming into the household.
For many teens instant gratification has always been pretty accessible around tax return time and many times being told no will cause some waves. But, as explained by some of the mothers this is something that is being done to have another child and although they are not happy at first they will be getting a sibling and this has changed many a tune.
So do expect a little wave here and there but the majority of family members do accept the fact they may not get everything they want right away but they are more than happy with the end result.
For more information on tubal reversal surgery the staff at Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center can always be reached to help you.